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The Big Blend

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Sculpture by Paige Bradley – Learn more about it here: http://paigebradley.com/sculpture/expansion.html – really, do that….click on the link.

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At the beginning of this year, my focused intention was to ‘be seen’, so my word of the year became “Visible” – scurry, I know . . . right?!?

I took action on that intention by first taking down the wall that separated the two stores at the warehouse.  I have no corner to retreat to :) In doing that, I have begun to broaden my community – instead of hiding in the corner, I talk to more people and I take time to learn more about them. I also moved forward the work I do that is most resonant to me . . . the Runes, the Kanji, the Tarot.

Here’s where it gets really fun: I have stopped compartmentalizing my “work” and “life”.

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SO NOT ME

It really just evolved. I love what I do… the teaching and the making…none of it is a “job”, as much as it is a lifestyle I have chosen.  I have chosen to be a maker and a teacher. It is also what I have been doing for 24 years, as a mom . . . being a maker and a teacher <3. These are my life purposes.

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CLOSER to reality

One of the important things I have gained by blurring the proverbial lines between my work and my life is – less stress . . . more flow.

When I spent time delaying work because of family things to attend to, I frequently fell behind and became really frustrated.  The same was true with putting off /missing family things “because I have to work” – and with the stress came guilt.

Here is where all the things come together . . .

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because I am quirky and this made me laugh

Many an artist will come into class and feel a great deal of anxiety and say things like “I’m not very creative.” In many classes, in many conversations, I have replied “Of course you are! When you are moving through your day, deciding what to eat/what to wear; paying bills; cleaning; directing traffic in your home . . . you are being creative with your resources. Metal clay is simply a new medium for your creative energy.”

When I said that, again, in January, it was as if a light went on in my head . . . above my head . . . an ‘ah ha’ moment or as I like to refer to hit ‘here’s yer brick woman’.

As I write, right now, I am “working”. To my left, sits my baby girl, doing her thing. Every so often, she’ll share a cool thing she found on the internet. We talk and laugh. Yesterday morning, I dropped her off at school for a two hour final; I came home, cleaned up some things, checked my email/Facebook/Instagram accounts, played with my pets, organized my workspace and worked on a bracelet for the last ten minutes before I had to leave.

My daughter has gone to classes with me and sometimes to the stores. I share my work with her.  She has created pieces for me to sell at the store.

I’ve had similar moments with my son, AND I missed an entire soccer season, even while being ‘self employed’ . . . with my father.

I made a decision that I would never do that again. I have stilled missed a thing or two with my daughter and she and I are due for an extended adventure, but we talk about these things and we’re ok.

I enjoy being able to pick her up after school and I enjoy spending time with her. Why would I taint that with any stress or guilt?  Why not, just enjoy every moment of every day (except maybe when I am in traffic on a hot day – I don’t necessarily enjoy that).

Home, being my primary office, certainly lends itself to the ease of blending work and life. However, what is most valuable to that flow is doing what I love for a living. I have made the choice not to sit in an office somewhere else. I chose some flexibility. I have chosen to be my own boss.

I’ve had lots of “jobs”. A job  . . . working for someone else – getting a paycheck. It’s pretty easy: perform tasks well, be nice, show up on time, etc., and when the allotted time passes of the same routine, you get a check – VOILA.  There is generally little risk and yes, there are days when I miss it, because there are days when it would be easier.

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She looks awesome and happy huh?

 

I’m not talking about passionate careers – policeman, fireman, nurses and the like.  A job is usually something one does not like, however does, as a means to an end . . . ‘can’t wait until my vacation time’; ‘filling up my 401k’; ‘here comes Friday’.

Solo-preneurship is not for everyone. To be sure, it isn’t for anyone that wants to stay ‘safe’, is shy, reluctant to meet challenges, accept that not all their time is ‘free’ and isn’t prepared to be working often – it isn’t easy.

Ultimately, when I stopped compartmentalizing, it became much easier for me. More flow and more fun . . . less stop and more start . . . less stress . . . no guilt. Everyone and everything gets the time and space desired, because it is all choice.

The flow has created more friendships. Not compartmentalizing who I am when I am working and who I am when I am “home” has created less tension when I am communicating…both at the stores and in classes.

I am who I am – all the time.  Imperfect, quirky, funny, vulnerable, creative, strong, vibrant, compassionate, honest, sometimes oversharing . . . and some other stuff :) Making this blend has made me more authentic to who I am.

So what’s the message here?  It’s really quite simple.  Be who you are in all you do,  . . . and . . . love . . .  all . . . that . . . you . . . do – or stop doing it <3 – find a way to stop putting your hand on the stove – while it’s hot. I’m working on the traffic thing.

Now, go make something . . . right now  . . . even if it’s trouble <3

 

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Not Alone Anymore :)

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So, I am kinda counting this month as done, even though it’s the 30th :)

Month in review: There was the end of the Whimsical Rings class at Santa Monica; There was the beginning and subsequent end of an Introduction to Metal Clay class at GCC. In the middle, were school things for my daughter, a new haircut, my birthday, Mother’s Day and most recently Memorial Day.  THOSE are just the highlighted “events”.  Good times all over!

I am so appreciative of all the b-day love.  I got cards and messages . . . a home cooked meal and flowers from Suzanne (Belandaria Designs). There was candy, cinnamon rolls and purple flowers from Shirlee and Chris (Enchanted Chic); wine from Rachel Waugh (Director at Crafted); and wine from Deb Marjanen (former student and now friend). Of course my fav gift and moments were the ones that involved my daughter and a funny phone call the – day after – from my son :) .  I got a lovely journal from my daughter and a gift certificate for tools, from my son.  I treated myself to dinner at my favorite restaurant too!  I love me some Tokyo Waco!  I had a lovely week . . . a lovely month!

I mention Suzanne and Shirliee and Chris and Rachel and Deb, because I love them and they are my friends and I really experienced that on my birthday!  Suzanne was awesome enough to mention me in her recent blog about a similar feeling …. which gave me the additional impetus to speak about my community.

On my birthday, there was an event at Crafted and I was there.  Several people asked “Wouldn’t you rather be someplace else?” Without much hesitation, I said ‘No’. The hesitation was the brief desire for a cruise with my children…but barring that, I could not have imagined doing much else on my birthday. [I did take Mother's Day off and as luck would have it, my daughter was sick, so I did one of the things I do well, took care of her.] On Memorial Day, I opted to work at the stores. Again, a few people asked “Wouldn’t you rather be at the beach . . . a bbq . . . a party?” And with no hesitation I said “Naw. I’m happy here.”

Here’s the thing, I love being at my stores.  The more I am there, the more opportunity there is to talk about the medium I work in, share my work and it’s intent, meet new people and spend time with my friends  – who make up my community.

Up until opening the stores at Crafted, I was a solitary artisan and kind of a hermit.  I took a class here and there, I spent time at my daughter’s school functions and I ventured out to a few craft fairs over the years, but that was about it.  While I met a bunch of people, most of those relationships have been acquaintanceships.

Since I’ve been hanging out at Crafted, I have developed some great friendships. There are many fellow store owners that I have a lot in common with. We laugh a lot, we tell funny stories about our lives and our studio injuries . . . our interactions.  We share our work; we consult . . . new ideas are born and manifest. There is nothing more exciting than running to a friends store with an idea and sharing the glee!

On the interwebs, Merriam-Webster defines “community” [in part] as:

: a unified body of individuals: as

c : an interacting population of various kinds of individuals (as species) in a common location

I find ‘community’ in classes as well. I spend, any where from 6 – 24 hours with an artist in a class. I learn a lot . . . hopefully the artists I play with do as well. I am forever inspired and new ideas have been born and manifest.  I have developed some lovely new friendships! It’s delightful that no matter the weather or how tired I might feel, when a class is done for the day, I feel so energized! And when class is over for the semester/quarter, I feel sort of melancholy.

Much of community and friendship building is about time…. it’s about tending relationships . . . it’s about an energy exchange. It is certainly easier to tend relationships when you spend a lot of time with someone.

I love being at Crafted. I love meeting people! When I am not playing with my daughter or playing in a class, there is no better place I’d rather play – except maybe a cruise :) .

Where do you find community?  How do you tend the garden of your friendships? :)

Come to Crafted….. meet my community.  It’s pretty big and filled with good things.

Things coming up and places to find me:

•June 6 begins a new 8 week series at Otis College of Art and Design. Here is a link to learn more: http://bit.ly/118cC6l

•June 8 & 9 is PMCC Level 1 – go here to learn more: http://bit.ly/YSxcbT

•June 18 – Santa Monica College – Intro to PMC – learn more here: http://bit.ly/10AEWlj

•June 23 – Mini-Intro at Crafted – register here: http://bit.ly/12nAMcX  that link will take you directly to a PayPal page to pay the fee and register for the class. If you need more information, email me: delia@phoenixmagyk.com

Next week I will chat about the lack of separation between “work” and “life” . . . it’s a good thing!

Now…. Go make something… you know you want to.  Below are pictures of new work, presents and good times from the last month.

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Updates and Such

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Hello Lovers of Lovlies and Learning!

I do realize that it seems to take forever between Blog Posts. On average, I am teaching twice a week and have pretties to make, my stores to tend to and other business affairs to handle and as we know… I am a one woman show.  I love you all, I promise :)

I did update my calendar this morning with new dates . . . check it!

Newsletter notes:  I took last week off.  I didn’t mean to take the entire week off from all things Magyk . . . but then there were tax *things* . . . and I’ll just say that I am glad that it’s over for the time being.

Question of the week: ”Since PMC is torch fired (generally) can bottleglass be used as a gem stone? Specifically, sea tumbled beachglass of which I have buckets. I know that its melting point is fairly low if the piece is of an older vintage that’s why you could throw an old Coke bottle in a fire ring at the beach and end up with a slumpy blob.  Anyway, I have some small gem sized bits that have been tumbled so much they look like gems themselves- spectacular. – Jen F.

Answer: Dear Jen (and others thinking about this idea), Please do not torch fire glass. You are right when you indicate that glass has a low melting point, and more importantly a low heat tolerance and fracture point. It can sit in a bonfire and melt because it is contained in the heat. Glass generally shatters when hit with high heat and exposed to cooler temps, which is what occurs when doing any torch firing. That’s called ‘thermal shock’. Anytime we metal clay artists use glass/ceramic in our work, it is recommended that we kiln fire. So – check out a bead store or glass store in your area and see if they have a kiln and will fire your work for you. If you don’t have luck with that, bring your work to me and I will kiln fire it for you. Be aware that in my recent test firing of beach glass, it changed color . . . from a lovely sea foam green to yellow. I will be test firing again, to see if a lower temp might prevent this, however, I fired at 1170, which is lower than traditional firing.  I will keep you all posted and if you want me to kiln fire for you, know that there are never guarantees.

Have a question about metal clay/firing/gems/making things?  E-Ask me and it will go in next weeks newsletter.  If I don’t know the answer, I will also find it and provide the resource where I got it. Thank you Jen for being the first to jump in! You may also submit a joke :)

Metal Clay Learnin’

Sunday, April 28 - AT CRAFTED – 3p to 6pm •  The mini-intro class is $70 and includes 3 hours of instruction and play time, 18 grams of clay, assorted clay supplies, a gemstone, a take-home sheet and loaner tools. You will walk away with a finished piece, your left-over clay and resources to purchase more supplies. I also offer ‘lifetime’ tutoring and a money-back guarantee. Follow my directives and if you hate your experience when it is over, I am happy to give you, your class fee back.  You can even keep your left-over clay.

Registration closes Sunday – April 21 at 6pm.  Use the link below to make payment and you are registered! I will confirm for all registrants as I receive notice from PayPal:

https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=4LXHS67CYMT56

What people have said about classes:

“This was sooooo much fun!” -Rain C.

“I can’t believe I created a piece of jewelry!” – Xaver P.

“OH MY GOODNESS! Look what I did!” -Deb F.

“This was really fun and I look forward to more classes!” -Esther Y.

“Delia has a great personality that makes learning fun.” -Iris S.

“I felt like I was taught by a real expert.” – Dawn S.

Coming Up in other locations:

• Mark The Date  PMC Certification – Level 1 - June 8 & 9 in Long Beach.  In two days we create 4 pieces covering many skills.  More in-depth forming, stone setting, ring making, bead making, carving, syringe work and more.  After you complete all the projects, you’ll be tired, excited and Certified as an Artisan.  This makes you a big deal and able to qualify at many metal clay suppliers for a discount on materials :) It is not for the faint of heart and it is expensive, however, since I have done all three Level Certifications, I can say it was worth every penny. Go here to see sample projects, a full class description and to register: http://bit.ly/YSxcbT

• In May, I’ll be teaching a four week Introduction-Intermediate Metal Clay Class at Glendale College – there are 8 spots open. We will cover A LOT in 4 weeks.  Go here: http://bit.ly/14OcNtL

Joke:  “What was T-Rex’s favorite number?”

“ATE!”

Be well . . . 

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It’s Been A Roller Coaster Ride!

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******CAUTION: vulnerability here ******

Top Five DON’TS
. . . when someone reaches out for financial help.

5) Ignore them altogether.  It’s OK to say  “I cannot contribute, AND I am pulling for ya.” The person reaching out could probably use those words of encouragement.

4) Judge them harshly. For whatever the reason, the person is in a situation where they need financial support.  It’s OK to ask for more information to inform your decision – don’t assume you really know the whole story and I suggest you ask privately.

3) Share your judgment . . . ever . . . privately or publicly with the person making the request. These requests are not up for public debate and conversation of the social implications.  It’s OK to ignore them if you are judging them harshly – keep it to yourself.  You have NO idea how difficult it may have been for the person to ask for such support.

2) Rebuff the gift. If someone has offered a gift in exchange for your contribution, please consider accepting it. It is the path of their integrity. It’s also OK to allow them more time to create and deliver the gift :)

1) Any of the above . . . can create . . . a sorta cloud o’ ick  floating around in the ‘verse.

Yup, I started with a bunch of don’ts.  Just sayin’ . . . it’s another perspective. I blame no one for my responses, btw. Anyone that knows me, knows that I understand that how I think, affects how I feel :) The negativity was pretty self-inflicted.

The “Don’ts” are as much for me, as they are for anyone that they might resonate for. It is about how I want to create my future relationships.

In the last few weeks, I have experienced a WIDE range of emotions. From shame and isolation and all things in between that, to EXTREME gratitude and a warm-blanky-feeling of love from those that have understood this effort and made a contribution. What a roller coaster ride. I feel a little rough around the edges right now.

Contributions have also come in other forms . . . moral support; sharing the campaign; a purchase from my Etsy store; fixes to my website; reviews of what I am about to post; a word of good cheer; cards; flowers; hugs . . . every little bit has been heartwarming to say the least.

This was a difficult request to make – of people I know, as well as people who are ‘strangers’ – and community, as I see it, and how this panned out, is a WHOLE ‘nother blog post :)

It took two weeks for me to actually make the request. It took another week for me to feel brave enough to share anything about it to my email list.

Money is energy.  Money is a means of exchange.  It is how I keep the lights on, gas in my car, eat food, feed the girlie, pay bills, feed my animals . . . stay in business with new product and materials for teaching AND keep my daughter in a school she has been in for 11 years.

I have ultimately worked something out – I am determined and creative like that.  Devyn will stay in her school, five people will get fairies and a bunch o’ people will get cranes and poppies, (no one wanted a Magyk charm – watz up with that?).

THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU . . . for all that you gave, all that I learned from this and mostly for the wealth of closer relationships we have created because I was willing to stand before you in the ‘emperor’s new clothes’ and you greeted me and put a blanket around me.

Thank you for contributing, giving me time on gifts, sharing the postings and demonstrating your love for me and my girl and extraordinary compassion for the circumstance I have created.

Enjoy the cranes and the poppies . Know that these are pieces of meaning . . . adornment of value.  Devyn and I are both proud that you own one – or will own one :)

For those that ignored/judged/were soooooo uncomfortable by the request . . . be well and be happy.  Know that it is likely that I have been where you are and if you ever made such a request and I did not respond, I am truly sorry.  I now know how it feels. I am sorry, that you were made to feel uncomfortable.  It was not my intent.

Energy exchanged is valuable to everyone . . . left unattended it just creates more chaos/white noise in the ‘verse.

Thank you  – again, and again, and again . . . to everyone.

Much love and light,
Delia

Devyn's Fairy

For All the Love . . . That is Devyn

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My daughter attends a private school . . . a very good one and one that in the train of private schools is moderately priced for what it offers.  She has been in the same school since pre-kindergarten and she is currently in the 10th grade. That circumstance is at risk due to my financial circumstances.

It’s been said many times and statements similar have gone viral: ‘when you buy from a small business [artist] you are helping to pay for dance lessons [tuition].

Many blessings! And thank you for your support.

My son attended the same school, from 1st grade through 12th grade. He went on to attend UC Berkeley and graduated two years ago with a degree in Technical Theatre and Spanish.

By the time my daughter graduates, we will have been a part of this community for 20 years.

This educational environment is very much a part of who my daughter has become   . . . is becoming. It is her social environment as well – with many friends she has had since kindergarten and first grade. Continuing at the same school will increase her chances at college.  Having to leave the school, would be – I dare say – devastating for her.

Many moons ago, I found a fairy stamp hanging around my shop. I modified it to make me happy and more of my own and used it on the side of the Tree Goddess box (see below). You can’t see it in the picture, but she holds up the goddess, as fairies are prone to do from time to time. Having decided to not use her again, the mold I made of her face was tucked away.  She is very unique.

I unearthed her recently and have modified her once again. Her beautiful face reminds me of the tenderness and innocence I see in my daughter . . . in all children really. She represents to me, the hope that possibility brings. She represents the strength of growth and learning. It is fitting that I have revived her  . . . brought her to life . . . modified to represent all the things I hold dear.  Living passionately with purpose; learning and growing every day; the bright future I see for my children and especially the tuition I need to raise for my daughter to continue in her current education track . . . oh and maybe a new pair of shoes J.

I am an artist and a metal clay arts instructor. This is what I do for a living.

Today, I offer up this beautiful piece with the intention that I can put some stress over this bill, to rest. Will you support me?

“Devyn’s Fairy”

Fine silver Fairy holding a poppy with a golden stone in the center; embellished with additional nature elements – she has a bit o’ blue in her hair, just like my daughter.  On the back, the Kanji that represents “Love” and of course my signature.

This is a limited edition piece. I will only make 5.  All contributors to my effort will be entered into a drawing.  At the end of this campaign, Devyn will draw the five names of the lucky winners.

For those donating $25 or more, as material THANK YOU, you will have the option to receive either a “Magyk” charm piece, the poppy from the bigger piece or a fine silver Origami Crane, created by Devyn. For those contributing less than $25, you are still entered into the drawing and will be acknowledged in a future blog post, if you are not anonymous :)

A little background . . .

In 2007 when I started on the journey of metal clay MAGYK, I had no idea where it would take me. In 2008 when I decided to do my first show, I was just full of nerves and possibility.  That first show was an epic fail on many fronts or a tremendous learning experience :) . I’ve been adjusting my path ever since . . . adapting, modifying, growing, learning.

Last year in 2012 I was able to increase my teaching opportunities and I took the biggest risk of my little business life.  I opened a micro-store in San Pedro, CA. at Crafted at the Port of Los Angeles.  As with all new business adventures, since my journey with Crafted, my expenses continue to outrun my income.

The ‘why’ of my business – to bring an energetic compliment to your journey through the adornment I create. Sales of my work allow me to pay bills, allow for extras and be independent of my former spouse. I am also, at least one live demonstration to my children that passion and a willingness to take action leads to spectacular things . . . and really it has in many ways.

I’m just gonna say, while I fly by the seat of my pants more often than I like, and I recognize I have a lot to learn . . . I’m still at it, knowing there is a reason I am spose to do what I do.  Once in a while a Lover of Lovelies comes along to remind me.  Once in a while an artist takes a class and I reminded . . . yes, this is what I am supposed to be doing.

May you enjoy this offering of Devyn’s Fairy.  May it be a reminder to you of possibility, joy, growth, learning and renewal as we head into spring. I’d be honored if you’d own one.

Devyn’s Fairy – back view (pardon the shadow)
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Just the poppy with a golden stone in the center. (lab. sapphire)
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Devyn’s Fairy with patina (per Devyn’s request)
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Origami Crane …created by Devyn
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Poppy with patina

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Alejandro The Mouse - riding in his automobile

The Adventures of This Mad-Artist

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Not angry, – “mad” as in slightly nuts.  However in my own defense, I would say that my eccentricity makes me all the more a better artist – LOL – right?

My car suffered a near fatal fail last week on the way home from my Crafted stores . . . Friday night . . . on the freeway! To say the least it was anxiety producing.

The adventure was really kinda funny – at first.  I had a passenger, which made it a lot less stressful.  I was in contact with my mechanic, which made it a lot less stressful.

After stopping in various parts of LA about 8 times, to allow the car to calm itself and try again for the journey home – when I reached a safe place to land – I cried.

I didn’t cry because I felt helpless, or scared that I was going to get us both killed OR that my car was broken and in the mad rush of my mind, I was thinking “how am I gonna pay for THIS?!”  No, I cried because the highway patrol officer scared the hell out of me when he yelled at me through his speaker – for the WHOLE WORLD TO HEAR.

On the last leg of the journey to get the car off the freeway, I was on the phone with the mechanic, and trying to get a hold of a tow-truck driver.  Out of no where, there is a bright light shinning in the car. I realize there is a helicopter overhead and clearly it’s a police one.  The mechanic says, “What’s that?” I say, “A helicopter”, he says “Get off the freeway!”.

So I start the car, have my friend make the call to our ride, that we are getting off the freeway, and in my rear view, I see the lights.  At this point, I realize something BAD must be happening. At a medium rate of speed, there is a HP cruiser weaving about the freeway lanes…ya know, like a traffic break.  I am on the shoulder, doing about 20mph, JUST trying to get to the next exit.  He stops, I keep plugging along, he YELLS “STOP”!  I stop.  He pronounces that I must stay 300 ft. behind the flashing lights, so I start to back up.  He YELLS again “STOP!” and THEN he says “Think about the other people, IT’S NOT ALL ABOUT YOU!”

At this point, I am feeling well beyond anxious and I’ve already had a convo with the ‘verse about “what are you telling me? Oh I know, get the car looked at sooner rather than later.”

He moves on, I wait and then plug along to the next off ramp. Of course civilization was to the left, not the right.

We make it to a gas station.  I think I just parked in the middle of a gas lane.  Our ride arrives – my estranged husband – I open the car door and out I pour in a flood of tears.  “What did he meeeeeeean, ‘It’s not all about you’.  I am thinking of other people, I’m thinking of the passenger I’ve been entrusted with and getting her home (the daughter of a dear friend), and I’m thinking about MY daughter who is home alone, waiting for me and hungry . . . I’m already racing with ‘how will I get her to school’ . . . I’m thinking about the customer I am spose to meet with on Saturday and how inconvenient it will be if she comes in and I am not there and ‘OH goodness, where is her number?’

My friend got home, my daughter got food.  At 10:45 I had no ride for the next morning. At 11:00, I had two rides. By Saturday afternoon I’d managed rides, to and from Skirball for my class on Sunday.

By Monday afternoon, I managed to get to the grocery store, the bank, and get my daughter to and from school all three days.  Monday was a school holiday – thank Zeus!

I have since decided that the YELL on the part of the highway patrol mean-man – was kinda cool.

So why share all this? To say out loud, how incredibly grateful I am for the folk I have in my life.

Many thanks to Suzanne Colucci – getting me to and from Crafted on Saturday; Adrienne Spellman – offering to come from Perris to get me to Crafted; Kristen Gluckman – being a ride ‘broker’ and loading me up to get me home from Skirball (from Santa Monica), Robin Foley – getting me TO Skirball, helping me unload and getting me coffee and breakfast; Pam Raymer-Lea – getting me to the bank, grocery store and post office; Blake Traister – coming to pick Emily and I up and giving me a hug, even though; Les Bohem, Mandy Boesche, Wendi Mittleman – getting Devon to and from school.  Special thanks to Dr. “Hercules” Steve – fixing the Pegasus Two; and Emily Hannah for being the bravest and most patient passenger EVER!  I love you all very much!  Thank you for your generosity and going above and beyond for a friend!

What does any of this have to do with teaching or things I make – A BUNCH!

It’s challenge enough to consider how I will accomplish some tasks in my life without a car.  Holy cow, I have walked out the door three times to go buy polishing pads… and DOH!  Not having a car messes with my rituals a great deal.  Add to that, reaching out, asking for help and needing to rely on others for their support – SUPER SCARY. Yet without that support, I would not have been able to be present for a customer on Saturday or teach on Sunday and Zeus knows, a week home with the girlie would have been unpleasant :) .

And more good news – I have been so diligent about remaining centered in the face of all events – there hasn’t been quite the buuuuzzzzzz of anxiety across my shoulders – as there used to be :) .

Not driving Devon to and from school has given me a whole extra hour in my day – although I miss it a little.

I’ve saved money on gas!

I’ve had the opportunity to really talk with friends that I don’t get to, in the hubbub of day to day!

I’ve had time to do more work this week and you just know  it is infused with the energy of gratitude and awareness.

A year ago, I might have declared this to be the ‘worse week EVER’. Today, I would declare this week, a SPLENDID one! It’s all good at the Phoenix Magyk desk.

Now – take a moment to think about what is good in your world, and GO MAKE SOMETHING! And if you haven’t seen these new rings, come see ‘em at Crafted this weekend! The first image is Alejandro the Mouse, here is his story:

The other image is of Reversal of Fortune.  Having grown weary of the chase, Max the Mouse created this clever cage for Caldwell the Cat. Max is quite clever and strong considering his small stature.

There are also new vessels that I finished last week and two more on the bench to be fired this afternoon.  As things are working out, the car will be ready in time for me to get to Otis.  We’re playing with hollow forms and glass tonight!

Much love and peace,

Delia

 

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I know, I know!  It’s been a bit of time since I made a “real” blog post.

Honestly, I’d like to have the habit of a weekly blog post fully in place. However, we can see, that I am sometimes time-challenged.  I do update Facebook daily, so if you want to track what’s happening “Like” my Facebook page.  For every 10 “Likes” I am giving away a “Magyk” charm.

So I split the post up, so you can decide which interests you more!

ALL ABOUT TEACHING  *click here*

ALL ABOUT THE STORES *click here*

 

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Tinker, Tailor, Soldier, Sailor . . . Artist?

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This has been ringing in my head for a week or so.  There are several versions of this old rhyme:

“The most common modern version is:
Tinker, Tailor,
Soldier, Sailor,
Rich Man, Poor Man,
Beggar Man, Thief.[1]The most common American version is:
Rich Man, Poor Man,
Beggar Man, Thief,
Doctor, Lawyer, (or “Merchant”)
Indian Chief. [1]http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tinker,_Tailor

Yes, I’m a Wikipedia fan.  One can find some accurate information . . . and I digress a little.

Why? Because, really, I chose to be an artist.  Just like the person who chooses to be a “tinker” (whatever that is) or a tailor or a soldier or a sailor.  Being an artist is my chosen path.  I suppose it is especially resonant in light of the things I have heard, since announcing this choice.  Things like:

“Really?”
“Why not a real job?”
“Are you any good at that?”
“Perhaps you could get a part-time job in a jewelry store?”
“Have you thought about waitressing?”
“You’re so lucky that you get to ‘play’ all day?”

So, you guessed it, I feel compelled to answer:

YES!  Really!  Being an artist makes my heart sing on most days and my work IS my contribution to a more loving planet.

Just what exactly IS a “real job”? Do you have any idea what I do all day?

YES!  I am good at THIS. As most prominently evidenced by the sales I have made and the evaluations from the classes I teach.

No, [dad], I am not going to work in a jewelry store, for a number of reasons, top on the list is my unwillingness to support a system that sells over-priced, over-hyped, mass manufactured jewelry [not inclusive of small shops with artisans that hand create each piece].

Why yes, I’ve thought about waitressing, grocery clerking, secretarial work, and did work for a time at The Container Store.

I stopped my traditional, educational pursuits several times to be more available to my children and due to some financial constraints.  I have no formal degree and am thereby considered unemployable for higher pay positions.

I have physical issues that create challenges even in the work I do now, however, I have greater flexibility.

I raise a teenage daughter involved in school and dance, which means a fair amount of driving, and requires the flex-hours I have created with my work – sort of flex-hours :) .

I have been, in my lifetime, a secretary, a restaurant hostess, a waitress (that was kinda funny.  If you meet me, ask me about a full tray of six breakfasts, on top of six construction workers) and other assorted “jobs”. I’ve also been a manager and a preschool director.

I have a philosophy about making a living in this world: Do what you love and you will be a well-rounded, centered, happy human, AND the world will be a better place.

There is a great book called “The Element”, written by Ken Robinson, you can find it here: http://amzn.com/0670020478.  The essence of his book:

“The element is the point at which natural talent meets personal passion. When people arrive at the element, they feel most themselves and most inspired and achieve at their highest levels.”

He talks in the book about the people who LOVE math, science, writing, waitressing, teaching, grocery bagging – honest, there are people that love those things.  These are not always ‘the job I’m doing until something better comes along’ – this IS the something better! Ummm I hate math and honestly, if I had the physical stamina at 52 to stand all day, I might consider grocery bagging.  I do like organizing things.

So, I AM doing what I LOVE and what I am good at.

YES!  I am fortunate that have the opportunity to ‘play’ . . . practice and perfect my craft . . . make pretty things for you to have. That isn’t what I do all day in my busy town.

I have marketing to do, and inventory, and bookkeeping and planning, and driving AND I am a (virtually) single parent, so I am also, cooking and cleaning, and planning and marketing, and driving and bookkeeping :) .

None of that was a complaint, by the way.

It is what IT is and I have made my choices and overall I LOVE what I do.

Don’t get me wrong.  It’s not all love and roses and mega sales by any means. I feel challenged when someone steps into my booth and remarks solely about the lighting I have used, or the mirror I have or the sign on my wall, oh and the branches on the wall I use to hang my work. I appreciate that there are those that see the creativite that I am, in how I present myself.

There is the occasional “Oh you’re work is awesome!” which I fully appreciate also – honest. An even better demonstration of your appreciation of my work, would be if you bought it :) . LOL

So I’m gonna say it now.

This IS how I make a living.  The sales of my work is not only the means to make more, it is also the opportunity to call the repairman when the washer breaks, or the plumber when the drains are way past Drano help, or the pittance I pay to my sweet gardener (because my lawnmower got stolen); or the chance to pay off bills, the occasional movie, a trip to the hair dresser, a new leotard and tap shoes for my daughter, an occasional leg-up to my son, new pants (oh how I could use new pants), a new tire for the car and goodness me, an oil change . . . all of the same things that everyone else wants or needs in their lives with the income from the work that they do.

You’ve heard a lot about “Buy Handmade” I am sure (I’ve posted a lot).  There is a lot of prose out there that virtually beats up the potential customer.  I hope you don’t see what I have written, and have that impression.  I just want to make it clear:

THIS IS MY REAL JOB!

While some may resent me because I do what I love for a living . . . I would only ask – why aren’t you doing what you love?  Is there a way for you to work it out? Or somehow, are we all ‘sentenced’ by some invisible force to do things we don’t like, because that is what we are supposed to do. I think we all know people who are sooooooo unhappy – because they are not living the life they want to live.

I am not always happy . . . and that’s an inside job. I can tell you, that when I drive to the Port, the traffic never bothers me . . . it just is.  When I drive to the dentist, the traffic makes me CRAZY! Think about that a minute.

So I think I said all that to say, just like anyone that works any where, I am not independently wealthy and being an artist is my ‘job’.  For everyone that has said in the last three months “I  hope you make it” – I intend to – and could use your purchases to help me do that.

Oh and about my prices.  Some say they are high (they don’t buy) others say “I need to have this!” so they do.  My prices are my prices and they are based on the cost of materials and some labor . . . that labor of love.

When you see a price on a piece in my shop, please consider the following:  I am a one-woman-show, everything you see is made/assembled by me (there are no elves or underpaid workers).   While I do not make my own chains, jump rings or clasps . . . I DO create each ‘focal’.  I carefully consider what Chinese Chop seems it should be made and what stone should go with it and I roll out metal clay and create each Rune, Chop, Geometric piece . . . each shard of ceramic is picked from a collection I have of vintage cups, bowls and plates (the blue and white ones are “English Scenery” from Wood and Sons, circa 1950).  Each piece of dichroic glass is creatively considered. I think, I make, I sand and finish each piece. I might spend hours re-doing a patina until I feel it is just right with those beautiful teals and purples.

The pen casing you may have seen in my shop? That was created by me, and it took two days to get it “right”.  The mini-coffee cup . . . that was really a two-year process of love and care, joy and failure, frustration and completion.

The rings I make . . . oooooh . . . don’t get me started on the rings :) .  Not only do I create each whimsical ring, having considered it’s theme, the media I will add to it – but I see them as mini-sculptures AND I promise, if you take care of it, they won’t fall apart.  While they are not an everyday wearable ring, they ARE works of art with a story that you can enjoy and share . . . AND if something happens, I’ll do whatever I can to fix it for you.  Ask me the story behind each ring, they all have one.

So the next time you look at any handmade item, consider that someone spent maybe hours, maybe days to bring that to you. THIS IS a real job.

I am oh-so-grateful to share my passion with you all and I hope it brings you joy and for those that have purchased – Thank you!  And my car thanks you for it’s new shoe. And for those just able to admire . . . Thank you!

Stop by Crafted and say Hello!

All my best,

Delia

Now . . . Go make something . . . you know you want to!

16 DAYS UNTIL CRAFTED at the port of la :)

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In the featured image… The Crafted Invitation . . . at the bottom of the pictures of art…in the center…is a fine silver pendant with a big square lab sapphire . . . that’s my work! It since has a new home.  At the Xiem show in May, a lovely young man name Jacques, bought it for his sweetheart as a surprise.

Maybe I haven’t caught you up on what’s happening . . . and I know why ☺

In 16 days, I will be standing in my permanent booth stall in San Pedro. You can learn much more about the overall project here: SQUEEEEE

I actually don’t remember when I really decided . . . but I remember getting an email from my good friend Rain Hannah of Honey & Ollie telling me ‘to check out this link’. She said she ‘was going to sign up, it looked like a very exciting thing’.

So I went to the website and I gave it a cursory glance; supplied them with pictures of my work and an application and . . . “Opening in the Summer of 2012”.

I attended an information meeting and met lovely, talented and tenacious, Ali Zeno and Rachel Robinson  . . . AND “Opening in the Summer of 2012”.

I just finished my last art faire . . . AND “Opening in the Summer of 2012”.

So last Sunday, it occurs to me that I better get in gear and start ordering materials to outfit my store. My daughter created a drawing and I have subsequently put too many moments into a 3d modeling program to make it look more professional.

Gettin' Started

I’m excited to say that I’ve ordered carpet tiles, and wall paper and that’s about as far as I’ve gotten. Painting will get underway on Saturday and I’ll be working on things full throttle Sunday the 17th until Grand Opening on the 28th – summer of 2012 is here NOW.

Carpet

Wallpaper

Back at the ranch . . . the shop . . . the office . . . there had been extensive ‘package’ preparation for possible teaching appointments and my application to become a Certification Instructor for PMC Connection – lesson plans, proposals, ‘proof of life’ on other classes . . . letters of recommendation. I have am now a Certification Instructor with PMCC and can begin teaching Level I Certification classes any time now. If you’ve been watching my news at all, you know I have classes at Otis College of Art and Design, Glendale Community College, Santa Monica College, and Majestical Roof.

In the midst of the business hulabaloo . . . let us not forget, I have a daughter and a son, both of whom I love with the entire fiber of my being. My son lives in the bay area and we don’t get a chance to talk much – and when you see my booth, the lighting will have been his design. Devon is a dancer and this year in competition, brought home the gold, twice!

Devon, A Trophy and Victory Rolled Hair

Opening in the Summer of 2012 . . . 16 days . . .

I would love to tell you that I’ve have handled ALL the THINGS with grace, calm and joy . . . yeah that would be a ‘no’.

While I have been VERY excited for all the happenings and all the happenings are with intent and purpose . . . I have at times been scattered, not read everything, double booked days, been late with custom work, forgot to order things and in general have had many a moment where I have had to stop myself and say “Self . . . Delia Daahling . . . life is what you make it . . . nothing is by accident . . . there is no life by happenstance . . . stand still and consider what you are doing.”

Do you ever have to do that?

More than anything in the world right now . . . I want those that ‘watch’ me to see, hear, and experience that EVERYTHING that is happening in my life, is what I WANT to be happening in my life – the good and the not-so-good.

In early December, after attending the Christine Kane workshop (I told ya’ll about that right?) – Uplevel Your Business, Live event – I sat down and wrote out goals for the coming year. Just about everything I set out to do in 2012 in now a reality.

So, at the beginning of this journal entry, if you will, I said “Maybe I haven’t caught you up on what’s happening . . . and I know why ☺” here’s why.

I’m not used to reaching my goals . . . this is all new territory for me and ultimately there is a part of me that is waiting for the dominoes to fall. Here’s the really fun part though . . .
Dominoes have been falling off the table everyday. I’ve at times been super-mega-awesome clumsy/unconscious/fearful/unclear/mad/sad/downright hysterical – and had to put the dominoes back in the right order – and I really didn’t want ya’ll to see ALL that – not a pretty sight – so I’ve been ‘playin’ it cool’, so as not to scare anyone ☺ I did start this blog post two days ago . . . big header “18 Days . . .” HA! On average, lately, I’m about two days behind ☺

Today – right this minute – when a domino falls . . . if all of them tip over . . . I envision the pattern to be a big question mark, signaling some lack of clarity somewhere in the line . . . and I know, now, without a shadow of a doubt in my mind that I will just handle it . . . figure it out . . . reset . . . and move forward.

It’s time for big girl thoughts and actions . . . there will be no more retreats . . . there will only be ‘oops’ and moving forward in the face of a challenge. That has been one of the greatest gifts of this new territory so far . . . using what I learned, putting tools to work, taking action and eventually it is all becoming [new] regular habit.

I take this opportunity to apologize for the lack of updates. I have heard form some folk that are like “Hey, what’s going on? Are you okay?” particularly in light of last summer when I through in the towel.

I’m terrific! I am awesome! I am realizing dreams! I am teaching every week . . . every month! Spreading the joy of metal clay arts wherever I go! Amy Steelman will also be playing at Crafted and recently took an intro class from me.

Metal Clay joy! Amy Steelman brushes her first piece!

In 16 days I’m opening a store!
Opening this Summer of 2012!

Many thanks to: Rain; Robin; Alison; Rachel; My family, Devon, Blake and Shane; Esther; Lora; Amy; Karen; Paula, Kiana, Amy, and everyone at Otis; Kathy and everyone at Glendale; Kathy and everyone at Santa Monica; Tamara and everyone at Zinnia; Lynn and everyone at Majestical Roof; Christine Kane and everyone at Uplevel; every student I have ever had the honor of teaching and every student I have yet to meet; every customer I’ve ever adorned and every customer I have yet to meet! . . . I have learned from you, I have grown with each experience, I have expanded my heart and soul – Thank you for all you have brought to my life. You have walked this journey with me weather you knew it or not :)

I’ll be updating everyday from now until Grand Opening . . . on Facebook, so if you haven’t “Liked” my Phoenix Magyk page yet . . . what’s stopping you!

Ta Ta for now, I feel certain there is something I’m spose to be doing – LOL!

Make something everyday . . . even if it’s trouble!

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Mother’s Day & New Art . . . Sneak Peek

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Mother’s Day is fast approaching (May 13). As a mom, I’ve always felt that it should be a celebration  . . . with parades . . . on a Monday . . . and absolutely everything is closed except restaurants that serve champagne brunch :) .

Also, as a mom, I appreciate special gifts . . . like some sort of adornment. There’s always that lovely scarf, my daughter “finger knitted” for me . . . and you can probably guess where I’m headed right?  I am a jewelry artist after all :) .

I of course have a large selection of hand prints in plaster, hand made cards, and macaroni pictures, from both my children and stains of coffee on the bead spread from a few breakfast-in-bed wobbly moments :) .

I say, a piece of jewelry that will remain significant for a lifetime is truly special. I still have the jewelry box my daughter painted at school when she was five and filled with costume jewelry . . . and yes, I do wear some of that jewelry.  I still have a heart charm, my son once gave me too.

Adornment speaks to me, as well as those I meet.  It tells you something about me . . . it may even create an instant connection.

Starting Monday, April 30, I’ll be posting new items to my Etsy shop for you to peruse and consider for that special “mom” in your world . . . or to treat yourself :) .  All purchases qualify for free shipping and you’ll receive a secret surprise too! www.phoenixmagyk.etsy.com

Drop hints . . . pass on the information to loved ones, AND special calls are always welcome from young buyers.

Need to see something in person?  Want to send your loved ones to take a look?  I’ll be sharing lovelies at Xiem Clay Center on May 11 and 12 (Lake Ave., Pasadena, CA.).  If that date scares you, call me for an appointment at the shop :) . 626-375-9839

I also offer Gift Certificates, attractively boxed – in any denomination.  They can be used for a ‘in-stock’ piece or a custom piece of the presenters choice . . . maybe a photo pendant of the family?! You need to call or email me: 626-375-9839; delia@phoenixmagyk.com

I also teach metal clay classes.  Maybe that special someone in your life wants to learn a new art medium.  Certificates for classes are either $95 or $105 and can be redeemed for up to a year. These will be on Etsy. www.phoenixmagyk.etsy.com

Here’s the sneak Peek I promised in my email:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Have a super-mega-awesome week!
All my best,
Delia

Make something everyday . . . even if it’s trouble! – I said that