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It’s Been A Roller Coaster Ride!

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******CAUTION: vulnerability here ******

Top Five DON’TS
. . . when someone reaches out for financial help.

5) Ignore them altogether.  It’s OK to say  “I cannot contribute, AND I am pulling for ya.” The person reaching out could probably use those words of encouragement.

4) Judge them harshly. For whatever the reason, the person is in a situation where they need financial support.  It’s OK to ask for more information to inform your decision – don’t assume you really know the whole story and I suggest you ask privately.

3) Share your judgment . . . ever . . . privately or publicly with the person making the request. These requests are not up for public debate and conversation of the social implications.  It’s OK to ignore them if you are judging them harshly – keep it to yourself.  You have NO idea how difficult it may have been for the person to ask for such support.

2) Rebuff the gift. If someone has offered a gift in exchange for your contribution, please consider accepting it. It is the path of their integrity. It’s also OK to allow them more time to create and deliver the gift :)

1) Any of the above . . . can create . . . a sorta cloud o’ ick  floating around in the ‘verse.

Yup, I started with a bunch of don’ts.  Just sayin’ . . . it’s another perspective. I blame no one for my responses, btw. Anyone that knows me, knows that I understand that how I think, affects how I feel :) The negativity was pretty self-inflicted.

The “Don’ts” are as much for me, as they are for anyone that they might resonate for. It is about how I want to create my future relationships.

In the last few weeks, I have experienced a WIDE range of emotions. From shame and isolation and all things in between that, to EXTREME gratitude and a warm-blanky-feeling of love from those that have understood this effort and made a contribution. What a roller coaster ride. I feel a little rough around the edges right now.

Contributions have also come in other forms . . . moral support; sharing the campaign; a purchase from my Etsy store; fixes to my website; reviews of what I am about to post; a word of good cheer; cards; flowers; hugs . . . every little bit has been heartwarming to say the least.

This was a difficult request to make – of people I know, as well as people who are ‘strangers’ – and community, as I see it, and how this panned out, is a WHOLE ‘nother blog post :)

It took two weeks for me to actually make the request. It took another week for me to feel brave enough to share anything about it to my email list.

Money is energy.  Money is a means of exchange.  It is how I keep the lights on, gas in my car, eat food, feed the girlie, pay bills, feed my animals . . . stay in business with new product and materials for teaching AND keep my daughter in a school she has been in for 11 years.

I have ultimately worked something out – I am determined and creative like that.  Devyn will stay in her school, five people will get fairies and a bunch o’ people will get cranes and poppies, (no one wanted a Magyk charm – watz up with that?).

THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU . . . for all that you gave, all that I learned from this and mostly for the wealth of closer relationships we have created because I was willing to stand before you in the ‘emperor’s new clothes’ and you greeted me and put a blanket around me.

Thank you for contributing, giving me time on gifts, sharing the postings and demonstrating your love for me and my girl and extraordinary compassion for the circumstance I have created.

Enjoy the cranes and the poppies . Know that these are pieces of meaning . . . adornment of value.  Devyn and I are both proud that you own one – or will own one :)

For those that ignored/judged/were soooooo uncomfortable by the request . . . be well and be happy.  Know that it is likely that I have been where you are and if you ever made such a request and I did not respond, I am truly sorry.  I now know how it feels. I am sorry, that you were made to feel uncomfortable.  It was not my intent.

Energy exchanged is valuable to everyone . . . left unattended it just creates more chaos/white noise in the ‘verse.

Thank you  – again, and again, and again . . . to everyone.

Much love and light,
Delia

Devyn's Fairy

For All the Love . . . That is Devyn

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My daughter attends a private school . . . a very good one and one that in the train of private schools is moderately priced for what it offers.  She has been in the same school since pre-kindergarten and she is currently in the 10th grade. That circumstance is at risk due to my financial circumstances.

It’s been said many times and statements similar have gone viral: ‘when you buy from a small business [artist] you are helping to pay for dance lessons [tuition].

Many blessings! And thank you for your support.

My son attended the same school, from 1st grade through 12th grade. He went on to attend UC Berkeley and graduated two years ago with a degree in Technical Theatre and Spanish.

By the time my daughter graduates, we will have been a part of this community for 20 years.

This educational environment is very much a part of who my daughter has become   . . . is becoming. It is her social environment as well – with many friends she has had since kindergarten and first grade. Continuing at the same school will increase her chances at college.  Having to leave the school, would be – I dare say – devastating for her.

Many moons ago, I found a fairy stamp hanging around my shop. I modified it to make me happy and more of my own and used it on the side of the Tree Goddess box (see below). You can’t see it in the picture, but she holds up the goddess, as fairies are prone to do from time to time. Having decided to not use her again, the mold I made of her face was tucked away.  She is very unique.

I unearthed her recently and have modified her once again. Her beautiful face reminds me of the tenderness and innocence I see in my daughter . . . in all children really. She represents to me, the hope that possibility brings. She represents the strength of growth and learning. It is fitting that I have revived her  . . . brought her to life . . . modified to represent all the things I hold dear.  Living passionately with purpose; learning and growing every day; the bright future I see for my children and especially the tuition I need to raise for my daughter to continue in her current education track . . . oh and maybe a new pair of shoes J.

I am an artist and a metal clay arts instructor. This is what I do for a living.

Today, I offer up this beautiful piece with the intention that I can put some stress over this bill, to rest. Will you support me?

“Devyn’s Fairy”

Fine silver Fairy holding a poppy with a golden stone in the center; embellished with additional nature elements – she has a bit o’ blue in her hair, just like my daughter.  On the back, the Kanji that represents “Love” and of course my signature.

This is a limited edition piece. I will only make 5.  All contributors to my effort will be entered into a drawing.  At the end of this campaign, Devyn will draw the five names of the lucky winners.

For those donating $25 or more, as material THANK YOU, you will have the option to receive either a “Magyk” charm piece, the poppy from the bigger piece or a fine silver Origami Crane, created by Devyn. For those contributing less than $25, you are still entered into the drawing and will be acknowledged in a future blog post, if you are not anonymous :)

A little background . . .

In 2007 when I started on the journey of metal clay MAGYK, I had no idea where it would take me. In 2008 when I decided to do my first show, I was just full of nerves and possibility.  That first show was an epic fail on many fronts or a tremendous learning experience :) . I’ve been adjusting my path ever since . . . adapting, modifying, growing, learning.

Last year in 2012 I was able to increase my teaching opportunities and I took the biggest risk of my little business life.  I opened a micro-store in San Pedro, CA. at Crafted at the Port of Los Angeles.  As with all new business adventures, since my journey with Crafted, my expenses continue to outrun my income.

The ‘why’ of my business – to bring an energetic compliment to your journey through the adornment I create. Sales of my work allow me to pay bills, allow for extras and be independent of my former spouse. I am also, at least one live demonstration to my children that passion and a willingness to take action leads to spectacular things . . . and really it has in many ways.

I’m just gonna say, while I fly by the seat of my pants more often than I like, and I recognize I have a lot to learn . . . I’m still at it, knowing there is a reason I am spose to do what I do.  Once in a while a Lover of Lovelies comes along to remind me.  Once in a while an artist takes a class and I reminded . . . yes, this is what I am supposed to be doing.

May you enjoy this offering of Devyn’s Fairy.  May it be a reminder to you of possibility, joy, growth, learning and renewal as we head into spring. I’d be honored if you’d own one.

Devyn’s Fairy – back view (pardon the shadow)
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Just the poppy with a golden stone in the center. (lab. sapphire)
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Devyn’s Fairy with patina (per Devyn’s request)
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Origami Crane …created by Devyn
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Poppy with patina

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Alejandro The Mouse - riding in his automobile

The Adventures of This Mad-Artist

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Not angry, – “mad” as in slightly nuts.  However in my own defense, I would say that my eccentricity makes me all the more a better artist – LOL – right?

My car suffered a near fatal fail last week on the way home from my Crafted stores . . . Friday night . . . on the freeway! To say the least it was anxiety producing.

The adventure was really kinda funny – at first.  I had a passenger, which made it a lot less stressful.  I was in contact with my mechanic, which made it a lot less stressful.

After stopping in various parts of LA about 8 times, to allow the car to calm itself and try again for the journey home – when I reached a safe place to land – I cried.

I didn’t cry because I felt helpless, or scared that I was going to get us both killed OR that my car was broken and in the mad rush of my mind, I was thinking “how am I gonna pay for THIS?!”  No, I cried because the highway patrol officer scared the hell out of me when he yelled at me through his speaker – for the WHOLE WORLD TO HEAR.

On the last leg of the journey to get the car off the freeway, I was on the phone with the mechanic, and trying to get a hold of a tow-truck driver.  Out of no where, there is a bright light shinning in the car. I realize there is a helicopter overhead and clearly it’s a police one.  The mechanic says, “What’s that?” I say, “A helicopter”, he says “Get off the freeway!”.

So I start the car, have my friend make the call to our ride, that we are getting off the freeway, and in my rear view, I see the lights.  At this point, I realize something BAD must be happening. At a medium rate of speed, there is a HP cruiser weaving about the freeway lanes…ya know, like a traffic break.  I am on the shoulder, doing about 20mph, JUST trying to get to the next exit.  He stops, I keep plugging along, he YELLS “STOP”!  I stop.  He pronounces that I must stay 300 ft. behind the flashing lights, so I start to back up.  He YELLS again “STOP!” and THEN he says “Think about the other people, IT’S NOT ALL ABOUT YOU!”

At this point, I am feeling well beyond anxious and I’ve already had a convo with the ‘verse about “what are you telling me? Oh I know, get the car looked at sooner rather than later.”

He moves on, I wait and then plug along to the next off ramp. Of course civilization was to the left, not the right.

We make it to a gas station.  I think I just parked in the middle of a gas lane.  Our ride arrives – my estranged husband – I open the car door and out I pour in a flood of tears.  “What did he meeeeeeean, ‘It’s not all about you’.  I am thinking of other people, I’m thinking of the passenger I’ve been entrusted with and getting her home (the daughter of a dear friend), and I’m thinking about MY daughter who is home alone, waiting for me and hungry . . . I’m already racing with ‘how will I get her to school’ . . . I’m thinking about the customer I am spose to meet with on Saturday and how inconvenient it will be if she comes in and I am not there and ‘OH goodness, where is her number?’

My friend got home, my daughter got food.  At 10:45 I had no ride for the next morning. At 11:00, I had two rides. By Saturday afternoon I’d managed rides, to and from Skirball for my class on Sunday.

By Monday afternoon, I managed to get to the grocery store, the bank, and get my daughter to and from school all three days.  Monday was a school holiday – thank Zeus!

I have since decided that the YELL on the part of the highway patrol mean-man – was kinda cool.

So why share all this? To say out loud, how incredibly grateful I am for the folk I have in my life.

Many thanks to Suzanne Colucci – getting me to and from Crafted on Saturday; Adrienne Spellman – offering to come from Perris to get me to Crafted; Kristen Gluckman – being a ride ‘broker’ and loading me up to get me home from Skirball (from Santa Monica), Robin Foley – getting me TO Skirball, helping me unload and getting me coffee and breakfast; Pam Raymer-Lea – getting me to the bank, grocery store and post office; Blake Traister – coming to pick Emily and I up and giving me a hug, even though; Les Bohem, Mandy Boesche, Wendi Mittleman – getting Devon to and from school.  Special thanks to Dr. “Hercules” Steve – fixing the Pegasus Two; and Emily Hannah for being the bravest and most patient passenger EVER!  I love you all very much!  Thank you for your generosity and going above and beyond for a friend!

What does any of this have to do with teaching or things I make – A BUNCH!

It’s challenge enough to consider how I will accomplish some tasks in my life without a car.  Holy cow, I have walked out the door three times to go buy polishing pads… and DOH!  Not having a car messes with my rituals a great deal.  Add to that, reaching out, asking for help and needing to rely on others for their support – SUPER SCARY. Yet without that support, I would not have been able to be present for a customer on Saturday or teach on Sunday and Zeus knows, a week home with the girlie would have been unpleasant :) .

And more good news – I have been so diligent about remaining centered in the face of all events – there hasn’t been quite the buuuuzzzzzz of anxiety across my shoulders – as there used to be :) .

Not driving Devon to and from school has given me a whole extra hour in my day – although I miss it a little.

I’ve saved money on gas!

I’ve had the opportunity to really talk with friends that I don’t get to, in the hubbub of day to day!

I’ve had time to do more work this week and you just know  it is infused with the energy of gratitude and awareness.

A year ago, I might have declared this to be the ‘worse week EVER’. Today, I would declare this week, a SPLENDID one! It’s all good at the Phoenix Magyk desk.

Now – take a moment to think about what is good in your world, and GO MAKE SOMETHING! And if you haven’t seen these new rings, come see ‘em at Crafted this weekend! The first image is Alejandro the Mouse, here is his story:

The other image is of Reversal of Fortune.  Having grown weary of the chase, Max the Mouse created this clever cage for Caldwell the Cat. Max is quite clever and strong considering his small stature.

There are also new vessels that I finished last week and two more on the bench to be fired this afternoon.  As things are working out, the car will be ready in time for me to get to Otis.  We’re playing with hollow forms and glass tonight!

Much love and peace,

Delia

 

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All About Teaching!

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I am a metal clay arts instructor.

What is metal clay?  In brief, it is fine metal particles, combined with an organic clay binder.  This material can be handled like modeling clay and you can create anything you want. After it is dry, you fire it in a kiln or with a torch, and VOILA! A creation of your desire.

I am a Level 3 Certified Artisan through PMC Connection and a Level 1 Certification Instructor. I’ve been teaching since 2008 and I love that part of my life.

The summer is over (although it remains hot).  My experiences at teaching venues, was as varied as the artists I had the privilege to teach.  I learned a great deal and had a great time.

My fall teaching schedule is in full swing until mid-December.  I am teaching week 4 at Otis College tomorrow night. I had a cancellation at Glendale for a 2 week advanced series.  “Secret Spaces” at Glendale is still open.

What is “Secret Spaces”?

Secret Spaces

Vessels hold, contain and protect treasures of all sorts.  In this three-part class you will learn how to use a unique armature for creating a container with a lift lid. Students will need to bring a votive candle.

We will talk about hinges and other kinds of vessels.

Go HERE to register.

I still have classes coming up.  Check out my calendar for the dates and locations.

At Crafted, if you don’t know, I have a mini-class almost every Sunday.  November classes will focus on holiday gift giving projects :) .  I am also excited for the possibility of a bigger class space.  While the demonstration are up by the front doors is more spacious, it is filled with people and my sense has been that it would be too ‘busy’.  The Crafted team has indicated that a classroom space is on the slate for Phase 2.

Here are some pictures of happy Artists that took a class at Crafted.

 

Jasmine

 

Shannon and Sue

 

 

 

 

Xavier

 

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Tinker, Tailor, Soldier, Sailor . . . Artist?

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This has been ringing in my head for a week or so.  There are several versions of this old rhyme:

“The most common modern version is:
Tinker, Tailor,
Soldier, Sailor,
Rich Man, Poor Man,
Beggar Man, Thief.[1]The most common American version is:
Rich Man, Poor Man,
Beggar Man, Thief,
Doctor, Lawyer, (or “Merchant”)
Indian Chief. [1]http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tinker,_Tailor

Yes, I’m a Wikipedia fan.  One can find some accurate information . . . and I digress a little.

Why? Because, really, I chose to be an artist.  Just like the person who chooses to be a “tinker” (whatever that is) or a tailor or a soldier or a sailor.  Being an artist is my chosen path.  I suppose it is especially resonant in light of the things I have heard, since announcing this choice.  Things like:

“Really?”
“Why not a real job?”
“Are you any good at that?”
“Perhaps you could get a part-time job in a jewelry store?”
“Have you thought about waitressing?”
“You’re so lucky that you get to ‘play’ all day?”

So, you guessed it, I feel compelled to answer:

YES!  Really!  Being an artist makes my heart sing on most days and my work IS my contribution to a more loving planet.

Just what exactly IS a “real job”? Do you have any idea what I do all day?

YES!  I am good at THIS. As most prominently evidenced by the sales I have made and the evaluations from the classes I teach.

No, [dad], I am not going to work in a jewelry store, for a number of reasons, top on the list is my unwillingness to support a system that sells over-priced, over-hyped, mass manufactured jewelry [not inclusive of small shops with artisans that hand create each piece].

Why yes, I’ve thought about waitressing, grocery clerking, secretarial work, and did work for a time at The Container Store.

I stopped my traditional, educational pursuits several times to be more available to my children and due to some financial constraints.  I have no formal degree and am thereby considered unemployable for higher pay positions.

I have physical issues that create challenges even in the work I do now, however, I have greater flexibility.

I raise a teenage daughter involved in school and dance, which means a fair amount of driving, and requires the flex-hours I have created with my work – sort of flex-hours :) .

I have been, in my lifetime, a secretary, a restaurant hostess, a waitress (that was kinda funny.  If you meet me, ask me about a full tray of six breakfasts, on top of six construction workers) and other assorted “jobs”. I’ve also been a manager and a preschool director.

I have a philosophy about making a living in this world: Do what you love and you will be a well-rounded, centered, happy human, AND the world will be a better place.

There is a great book called “The Element”, written by Ken Robinson, you can find it here: http://amzn.com/0670020478.  The essence of his book:

“The element is the point at which natural talent meets personal passion. When people arrive at the element, they feel most themselves and most inspired and achieve at their highest levels.”

He talks in the book about the people who LOVE math, science, writing, waitressing, teaching, grocery bagging – honest, there are people that love those things.  These are not always ‘the job I’m doing until something better comes along’ – this IS the something better! Ummm I hate math and honestly, if I had the physical stamina at 52 to stand all day, I might consider grocery bagging.  I do like organizing things.

So, I AM doing what I LOVE and what I am good at.

YES!  I am fortunate that have the opportunity to ‘play’ . . . practice and perfect my craft . . . make pretty things for you to have. That isn’t what I do all day in my busy town.

I have marketing to do, and inventory, and bookkeeping and planning, and driving AND I am a (virtually) single parent, so I am also, cooking and cleaning, and planning and marketing, and driving and bookkeeping :) .

None of that was a complaint, by the way.

It is what IT is and I have made my choices and overall I LOVE what I do.

Don’t get me wrong.  It’s not all love and roses and mega sales by any means. I feel challenged when someone steps into my booth and remarks solely about the lighting I have used, or the mirror I have or the sign on my wall, oh and the branches on the wall I use to hang my work. I appreciate that there are those that see the creativite that I am, in how I present myself.

There is the occasional “Oh you’re work is awesome!” which I fully appreciate also – honest. An even better demonstration of your appreciation of my work, would be if you bought it :) . LOL

So I’m gonna say it now.

This IS how I make a living.  The sales of my work is not only the means to make more, it is also the opportunity to call the repairman when the washer breaks, or the plumber when the drains are way past Drano help, or the pittance I pay to my sweet gardener (because my lawnmower got stolen); or the chance to pay off bills, the occasional movie, a trip to the hair dresser, a new leotard and tap shoes for my daughter, an occasional leg-up to my son, new pants (oh how I could use new pants), a new tire for the car and goodness me, an oil change . . . all of the same things that everyone else wants or needs in their lives with the income from the work that they do.

You’ve heard a lot about “Buy Handmade” I am sure (I’ve posted a lot).  There is a lot of prose out there that virtually beats up the potential customer.  I hope you don’t see what I have written, and have that impression.  I just want to make it clear:

THIS IS MY REAL JOB!

While some may resent me because I do what I love for a living . . . I would only ask – why aren’t you doing what you love?  Is there a way for you to work it out? Or somehow, are we all ‘sentenced’ by some invisible force to do things we don’t like, because that is what we are supposed to do. I think we all know people who are sooooooo unhappy – because they are not living the life they want to live.

I am not always happy . . . and that’s an inside job. I can tell you, that when I drive to the Port, the traffic never bothers me . . . it just is.  When I drive to the dentist, the traffic makes me CRAZY! Think about that a minute.

So I think I said all that to say, just like anyone that works any where, I am not independently wealthy and being an artist is my ‘job’.  For everyone that has said in the last three months “I  hope you make it” – I intend to – and could use your purchases to help me do that.

Oh and about my prices.  Some say they are high (they don’t buy) others say “I need to have this!” so they do.  My prices are my prices and they are based on the cost of materials and some labor . . . that labor of love.

When you see a price on a piece in my shop, please consider the following:  I am a one-woman-show, everything you see is made/assembled by me (there are no elves or underpaid workers).   While I do not make my own chains, jump rings or clasps . . . I DO create each ‘focal’.  I carefully consider what Chinese Chop seems it should be made and what stone should go with it and I roll out metal clay and create each Rune, Chop, Geometric piece . . . each shard of ceramic is picked from a collection I have of vintage cups, bowls and plates (the blue and white ones are “English Scenery” from Wood and Sons, circa 1950).  Each piece of dichroic glass is creatively considered. I think, I make, I sand and finish each piece. I might spend hours re-doing a patina until I feel it is just right with those beautiful teals and purples.

The pen casing you may have seen in my shop? That was created by me, and it took two days to get it “right”.  The mini-coffee cup . . . that was really a two-year process of love and care, joy and failure, frustration and completion.

The rings I make . . . oooooh . . . don’t get me started on the rings :) .  Not only do I create each whimsical ring, having considered it’s theme, the media I will add to it – but I see them as mini-sculptures AND I promise, if you take care of it, they won’t fall apart.  While they are not an everyday wearable ring, they ARE works of art with a story that you can enjoy and share . . . AND if something happens, I’ll do whatever I can to fix it for you.  Ask me the story behind each ring, they all have one.

So the next time you look at any handmade item, consider that someone spent maybe hours, maybe days to bring that to you. THIS IS a real job.

I am oh-so-grateful to share my passion with you all and I hope it brings you joy and for those that have purchased – Thank you!  And my car thanks you for it’s new shoe. And for those just able to admire . . . Thank you!

Stop by Crafted and say Hello!

All my best,

Delia

Now . . . Go make something . . . you know you want to!

courtesy of Ashley, Crafted Staffer :)

I Think My Phone Is Wine Soaked

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Friday night at Crafted, we had our Etsy Craft Party. Spearheaded by KC Sears, fellow shop owner -Make, Shop, Live - and carried forth by Crafted staff and BUNCH of vendor-volunteers who decorated . . . we had a fun-filled evening of make and takes, demonstrations, good food, great music, and awesome visitors. Check out Crafted’s site for pictures.

I’m not what I would consider a ‘crafty’ person. When I think of crafts, I think of the talented people that do awesome things with yarn and thread and paper and glue and tacks and things.  I tried knitting, crocheting and did needle point when I was a child. I don’t paint, I cannot draw worth a darn – just ask metal clay artists that have taken my classes – and frankly glitter and glue confound me.  I suppose if you consider my fine silver jewelry creations a craft, I fit in there somewhere. And I don’t mean that with any sense of arrogance. I really admire the people I know who can craft in that way.  My good friend Rain Hannah of Honey and Ollie spins her own yarn and is a genius at knitting and crocheting AND she can create a gemstone necklace like no one’s business. She is truly a well rounded artist, where as I consider myself a one trick pony.

A million years ago, I was the chairperson of an event at my children’s school.  It was called the World Market and it was a “crafty” event. Parents and children worked  for a couple of months making handmade goods to sell at the market. The highlight of preparations was “Craft Days” on the campus. One of those days was during school hours and each group of students was facilitated through a project.  These projects, no matter how well done (or not), were big sellers. The other Craft Days were done on the campus on a Saturday.  Encouraging widespread community involvement, we gathered at the campus and folk could sit at various stations and make a project.

Why I was EVER the chairperson of such an event, I will never know. I will tell you that I really panicked about Craft Days.  Most parents were savvy enough that for the in-school projects, we were all set.  One year, I actually came up with a good idea – decoupaged treasure boxes – it was a sticky mess, and the 5th and 6th graders had a good time. Me? I did have a good time and remained in fairly good spirits although I left there with paper and Modge Podge stuck to a good percentage of my body.

I chaired this event for three years.  After extraneous effort at knitting scarves and learning to decorate tiles for coasters, from the internet, I finally found a book.  This book of crafts was really my kinda book and I knew it the minute I saw the title: “The Big-Ass Book of Crafts”.  This book changed my life in numerous ways.

At the time it was a gift from the ‘verse that was sure to save me from glue.  I was able to share this book with fellow parents and spread the good cheer of 150 different kinds of projects, many of which contain NO glue and NO glitter – well there is glue . . . but NO GLITTER.

So I have my book and it was a great confidence builder for me.

I have since abandoned chairing any more events.  As my daughter heads into her 10th grade year and my son has graduated, I’ve done 17 years of events at this school, so I am taking an extended hiatus J  The book was tucked away until about two years ago.

I volunteered to create something for the previously aforementioned event and needed an idea.  I had been working as an artist for a while, however in my medium, I couldn’t figure out a donation that was cost effective for me.

I poured through the book and found something to do – I picked bath salts.  I got some help from a friend and we made several bottles.

In the process of sifting through the book, I was transfixed on several sections wherein the artist used Loteria cards/art to decorate things and make some really great works of art.

I cannot tell you the series of thoughts that occurred, however I can confirm that these sections of the book were the spark . . . yes, inspiration for the Loteria card pendants I now make.  Framed in fine silver, the tiny cards are resin set and the piece is hung on a sterling chain.

Now I realize this is all a very long back-story to why my phone is wine-soaked . . . and I’m getting to it.

Ok, so  . . . who is the ‘Dali Lama’ of crafting great art, that wrote this book?  Why, none other than Mark Montano. AND who showed up at Crafted on Friday night for the Etsy party? Why, none other than Mark Montano! And this brings me to wine on my phone . . .

So, I go to get a glass of wine and as I am walking back to my store, I catch a glimpse of Mr. Montano in what apparently is our ‘green room’. He is tucked away, pawing through his goodie bag in what will be the phase two warehouse.  I see him, I stop and I’m all freaking’ giddy . . . I peak, I stare, I watch.  Good friend Amy Steelman of Dogwood and Poppy, says “Go introduce yourself!” I shake my head . . . she says “Just go in there and say hi!”.  The thought of which prompts me to back up quickly, as I fear her shouting has been overheard and in doing so, I spill wine down my arm and on my phone.

I dash to my store to clean off my hand and consider the foolishness of my giddiness.

About ½ later, I had decided that I would in fact do a demonstration and I am headed to Wood Brain and Meriebabie  to find out when they will be doing make and takes and as I am marching through the warehouse, I round the corner and near knock him over . . . stop dead and mutter something like . . . “oh it’s you” to which he politely replies, “yes, it is me”.  I turned and ran.

Thinking they would be touring our isle any second, I grab my copy of “The Big-Ass Book of Crafts” and my sharpie pen and look at my friend Shirley and say, “He’s coming this way!”.  She laughed at me. I peak out of my stall just in time to realize they are NOT in fact coming this way, so I grab what little self-respect I have left and march over there with my book and pen and in the most timid voice I have ever heard come out of my mouth, squeak “Mr. Montano, will you sign my book?”.  When he asked me my name, I forgot for a second.  He graciously inscribed my book and I was able to mumble the impact his art had on my life and work and to share one of my Loteria pendants with him.

I SQEEEEEEEE back to my store.  I then do the best demonstration I’ve ever done.  Shirley takes pictures, Kristen stops by, the area was full of people! What a fun night . . . .could it get any better?

Why, yes, it could.

I realize I am starving.  I head to the food truck and they are sold out. As I walk back into the building, I see Mr. Montano doing photo ops and trying to shoo away would-be makers at his table. I say, “You just have to run!” and literally grab this man by the arm and drag him off to my booth.  As we are skittering away, I say, “so what do you know about metal clay?” he says “I’ve heard of it, but haven’t tried it” So I say, “lemme give you a pack and some tools to play with and loan you a book and let’s get together for a play date . . .”  Wait, did I just invite myself into Mark Montano’s life for a play date??????? Why yes, my silly self did exactly that!

I had the chance to share my work and explain (ad nauseum, I’m sure), about what an impact his book had made on my life and he posed for a pic with me and expressed an interest in taking a class and wanted to know if I had written a book yet and also shared the name of an artist I should look up.

I chatted with this extraordinary man as if I had known him for years.  He was delightful and inspiring just in his presence.

I turned around and with the help of my friend Shirley, sold 4 custom bracelets. They were the only things I had sold all day, so it was pretty squeeeee. Hello Dash & Dine of San Pedro.

I also saw my friend Ali Zeno, who shared her delightful story of meeting a famous driver and asking him to sign her “ass pad”.  This story made me laugh all night every time I thought of it, and made her husband shake his head in much the same way as he did during the original event.

Also among fabulous things happening, meeting a fine art jeweler that called my coffee cup a “masterpiece”!  I’m still a little stunned. Gary from McCloud Ringworks in Ports O’ Call, called my fine silver coffee cup a “masterpiece”.  I was SUPER touched, proud and excited

My night was complete.  I met Mark Montano, got his autograph in  “The Big-Ass Book of Crafts”, got a picture with him, sold something, had a little wine, shared great laughs with great friends . . . met a ton of new friends and now know that I am a maker of a “masterpiece” :)

Crafted . . . it’s kinda my life now :)

pics to come

16 DAYS UNTIL CRAFTED at the port of la :)

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In the featured image… The Crafted Invitation . . . at the bottom of the pictures of art…in the center…is a fine silver pendant with a big square lab sapphire . . . that’s my work! It since has a new home.  At the Xiem show in May, a lovely young man name Jacques, bought it for his sweetheart as a surprise.

Maybe I haven’t caught you up on what’s happening . . . and I know why ☺

In 16 days, I will be standing in my permanent booth stall in San Pedro. You can learn much more about the overall project here: SQUEEEEE

I actually don’t remember when I really decided . . . but I remember getting an email from my good friend Rain Hannah of Honey & Ollie telling me ‘to check out this link’. She said she ‘was going to sign up, it looked like a very exciting thing’.

So I went to the website and I gave it a cursory glance; supplied them with pictures of my work and an application and . . . “Opening in the Summer of 2012”.

I attended an information meeting and met lovely, talented and tenacious, Ali Zeno and Rachel Robinson  . . . AND “Opening in the Summer of 2012”.

I just finished my last art faire . . . AND “Opening in the Summer of 2012”.

So last Sunday, it occurs to me that I better get in gear and start ordering materials to outfit my store. My daughter created a drawing and I have subsequently put too many moments into a 3d modeling program to make it look more professional.

Gettin' Started

I’m excited to say that I’ve ordered carpet tiles, and wall paper and that’s about as far as I’ve gotten. Painting will get underway on Saturday and I’ll be working on things full throttle Sunday the 17th until Grand Opening on the 28th – summer of 2012 is here NOW.

Carpet

Wallpaper

Back at the ranch . . . the shop . . . the office . . . there had been extensive ‘package’ preparation for possible teaching appointments and my application to become a Certification Instructor for PMC Connection – lesson plans, proposals, ‘proof of life’ on other classes . . . letters of recommendation. I have am now a Certification Instructor with PMCC and can begin teaching Level I Certification classes any time now. If you’ve been watching my news at all, you know I have classes at Otis College of Art and Design, Glendale Community College, Santa Monica College, and Majestical Roof.

In the midst of the business hulabaloo . . . let us not forget, I have a daughter and a son, both of whom I love with the entire fiber of my being. My son lives in the bay area and we don’t get a chance to talk much – and when you see my booth, the lighting will have been his design. Devon is a dancer and this year in competition, brought home the gold, twice!

Devon, A Trophy and Victory Rolled Hair

Opening in the Summer of 2012 . . . 16 days . . .

I would love to tell you that I’ve have handled ALL the THINGS with grace, calm and joy . . . yeah that would be a ‘no’.

While I have been VERY excited for all the happenings and all the happenings are with intent and purpose . . . I have at times been scattered, not read everything, double booked days, been late with custom work, forgot to order things and in general have had many a moment where I have had to stop myself and say “Self . . . Delia Daahling . . . life is what you make it . . . nothing is by accident . . . there is no life by happenstance . . . stand still and consider what you are doing.”

Do you ever have to do that?

More than anything in the world right now . . . I want those that ‘watch’ me to see, hear, and experience that EVERYTHING that is happening in my life, is what I WANT to be happening in my life – the good and the not-so-good.

In early December, after attending the Christine Kane workshop (I told ya’ll about that right?) – Uplevel Your Business, Live event – I sat down and wrote out goals for the coming year. Just about everything I set out to do in 2012 in now a reality.

So, at the beginning of this journal entry, if you will, I said “Maybe I haven’t caught you up on what’s happening . . . and I know why ☺” here’s why.

I’m not used to reaching my goals . . . this is all new territory for me and ultimately there is a part of me that is waiting for the dominoes to fall. Here’s the really fun part though . . .
Dominoes have been falling off the table everyday. I’ve at times been super-mega-awesome clumsy/unconscious/fearful/unclear/mad/sad/downright hysterical – and had to put the dominoes back in the right order – and I really didn’t want ya’ll to see ALL that – not a pretty sight – so I’ve been ‘playin’ it cool’, so as not to scare anyone ☺ I did start this blog post two days ago . . . big header “18 Days . . .” HA! On average, lately, I’m about two days behind ☺

Today – right this minute – when a domino falls . . . if all of them tip over . . . I envision the pattern to be a big question mark, signaling some lack of clarity somewhere in the line . . . and I know, now, without a shadow of a doubt in my mind that I will just handle it . . . figure it out . . . reset . . . and move forward.

It’s time for big girl thoughts and actions . . . there will be no more retreats . . . there will only be ‘oops’ and moving forward in the face of a challenge. That has been one of the greatest gifts of this new territory so far . . . using what I learned, putting tools to work, taking action and eventually it is all becoming [new] regular habit.

I take this opportunity to apologize for the lack of updates. I have heard form some folk that are like “Hey, what’s going on? Are you okay?” particularly in light of last summer when I through in the towel.

I’m terrific! I am awesome! I am realizing dreams! I am teaching every week . . . every month! Spreading the joy of metal clay arts wherever I go! Amy Steelman will also be playing at Crafted and recently took an intro class from me.

Metal Clay joy! Amy Steelman brushes her first piece!

In 16 days I’m opening a store!
Opening this Summer of 2012!

Many thanks to: Rain; Robin; Alison; Rachel; My family, Devon, Blake and Shane; Esther; Lora; Amy; Karen; Paula, Kiana, Amy, and everyone at Otis; Kathy and everyone at Glendale; Kathy and everyone at Santa Monica; Tamara and everyone at Zinnia; Lynn and everyone at Majestical Roof; Christine Kane and everyone at Uplevel; every student I have ever had the honor of teaching and every student I have yet to meet; every customer I’ve ever adorned and every customer I have yet to meet! . . . I have learned from you, I have grown with each experience, I have expanded my heart and soul – Thank you for all you have brought to my life. You have walked this journey with me weather you knew it or not :)

I’ll be updating everyday from now until Grand Opening . . . on Facebook, so if you haven’t “Liked” my Phoenix Magyk page yet . . . what’s stopping you!

Ta Ta for now, I feel certain there is something I’m spose to be doing – LOL!

Make something everyday . . . even if it’s trouble!

LoveSneak

Mother’s Day & New Art . . . Sneak Peek

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Mother’s Day is fast approaching (May 13). As a mom, I’ve always felt that it should be a celebration  . . . with parades . . . on a Monday . . . and absolutely everything is closed except restaurants that serve champagne brunch :) .

Also, as a mom, I appreciate special gifts . . . like some sort of adornment. There’s always that lovely scarf, my daughter “finger knitted” for me . . . and you can probably guess where I’m headed right?  I am a jewelry artist after all :) .

I of course have a large selection of hand prints in plaster, hand made cards, and macaroni pictures, from both my children and stains of coffee on the bead spread from a few breakfast-in-bed wobbly moments :) .

I say, a piece of jewelry that will remain significant for a lifetime is truly special. I still have the jewelry box my daughter painted at school when she was five and filled with costume jewelry . . . and yes, I do wear some of that jewelry.  I still have a heart charm, my son once gave me too.

Adornment speaks to me, as well as those I meet.  It tells you something about me . . . it may even create an instant connection.

Starting Monday, April 30, I’ll be posting new items to my Etsy shop for you to peruse and consider for that special “mom” in your world . . . or to treat yourself :) .  All purchases qualify for free shipping and you’ll receive a secret surprise too! www.phoenixmagyk.etsy.com

Drop hints . . . pass on the information to loved ones, AND special calls are always welcome from young buyers.

Need to see something in person?  Want to send your loved ones to take a look?  I’ll be sharing lovelies at Xiem Clay Center on May 11 and 12 (Lake Ave., Pasadena, CA.).  If that date scares you, call me for an appointment at the shop :) . 626-375-9839

I also offer Gift Certificates, attractively boxed – in any denomination.  They can be used for a ‘in-stock’ piece or a custom piece of the presenters choice . . . maybe a photo pendant of the family?! You need to call or email me: 626-375-9839; delia@phoenixmagyk.com

I also teach metal clay classes.  Maybe that special someone in your life wants to learn a new art medium.  Certificates for classes are either $95 or $105 and can be redeemed for up to a year. These will be on Etsy. www.phoenixmagyk.etsy.com

Here’s the sneak Peek I promised in my email:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Have a super-mega-awesome week!
All my best,
Delia

Make something everyday . . . even if it’s trouble! – I said that

WHATZZZZ UP! CLASS NEWS!

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There has been a great deal of happenings ’round Shop D’Delia.

I hope you all have been well and happy.

I’ve spent the last two weeks prepping my Course Proposals for various teaching possibilities and gathering the data that is ‘me’.  THANK YOU . . . to everyone that had such lovely things to say for Letters of Recommendation and all the “Go Delia!” I heard.

I love, love, lovity, love, love teaching . . . almost as much, if not more that creating art.

So before I get too ahead of myself . . . in the month of April, I will be teaching an Introduction to Metal Clay at Majestical Roof!  April 3 & 4, 6p – 9p.  In the first day we will have an overview of metal clay, the tools to use and how to design (even if you don’t think you can :) ).  We will actually lay out some work.  On evening two we will cover pre-fire finishing, firing and post-fire finishing.  I love the Majestical Roof Gallery and the team there is excited to present many classes in this coming year and I am grateful to be a part of.

So register by March 28 for your spot in this really fun class and spend a couple of evenings learning something new and telling jokes with me! Go to my Calendar page, find the date and clink the link.  It will take you to Paypal to pay the class fee and then you will receive an email confirmation from me with additional information.

ALSO in April, I will be teaching “Photo Pendant Magic” at Zinnia- that wonderful place for

Loteria card, resin set (Photo Pendant Magic)

“contagious creativity”. April 28 & 29 11a – 3p.  On day one we will discuss and implement ways to create frames for our assorted pictures . . . they will be kiln fired that night.  On day two we will shine up our frames and GET STICKY with a little UV resin and a bit o’ glue GO TO my Calendar page, find the date and clink the link.  It will take you to Paypal to pay the class fee and then you will receive an email confirmation from me with additional information. Register by April 23.

As I work out a few details regarding my schedule . . . These are two classes I am teaching locally – Majestical Roof is in Pasadena and Zinnia is in South Pasadena – before June.

I am pleased to announce that beginning this summer, I will be teaching metal clay magic at Glendale Community College, Santa Monica Jr. College and Otis College – all within the Community Education Programs, or what some refer to as Adult Education.  The class dates will be posted to my calendar.  You will need to go to the sites of the schools to register.

I love, love, lovity, love, love teaching . . . almost as much, if not more that creating art!

I do have sales appearances coming up: March 31, I will be showing and selling at Majestical Roof; 88 N Fair Oaks Ave # 102, Pasadena, CA 91103-3632 (map link). There’s more . . . check out the Calendar! :)   I’m very proud of my new Calendar. Honestly, anytime I can master adding a new wizbang to the site that makes life easier for all, it’s like New Years!

Recently I got turned on the a book by Dr. Robert Anthony, “Beyond Positive Thinking”. In the early pages he describes a concept of the ” . . . the river of life . . .” and now I paraphrase ‘you can go to the river of life with a teaspoon, some may go with a cup . . . a bucket . . . a barrel even . . . the river is there and will always flow’. It’s about what we think we can accept and going for the results we want in our life.

I’m headed to the river with a barrel, drinking it in  . . . and I am always ready to share!

Go make something!  Have a great week!

All my best, Delia

 

Where I’ve been . . . Where I’m heading

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Hi Everybody!

I do hope everyone is doing well.

Here’s a photo of me at Zinnia.  I did a demonstration of metal clay there.  There were eager observers and it was a lot of fun!


I’m demonstrating how we torch fire metal clay :)

The art show at Zinnia was [apparently] a smashing success. A funny thing happened on the way to Majestical Roof that morning for the show, I had a run-in with a cup of coffee and burned my arm – so I didn’t make it that nite. :(   I was sad to miss the fun.  My works on sale there are still looking for a new home and three pieces have been added to the collection of my work at Zinnia.

Even though we got rained out . . . the February 11 event at Majestical Roof was a lot of fun.  I did a demo there too!  And as of last Tuesday, several works of my art are on display and for sale there.  My sweet friend Rain Hannah of Honey and Ollie took some stunning pictures of my work!

Thank YOU Rain Hannah!

Due to the injured arm, I sadly took no pictures that day.

As the time of year would seem to dictate, there were several students lined up for the February 18 class, that had to miss out due to illness (my daughter Devon still battles a two week cold).  I opted to move forward with one student and we had a great time.  Her name is Kathy and if you ever have the chance to meet her, do ask her about warming pieces by light bulb while patina’g :)

February 26 • 10 – 6 I’ll be teaching my first class of the new year at Majestical Roof – An Introduction to Metal Clay – Plus . . . project specific, slower paced
Future classes TBA.  Use this Buy Now button to pay – the registration form is sent after you are signed up.





Coming up in March . . . 3/10* Color It Yours at Zinnia – that is a corrected date.  *It was 3/18 in my last missive, which was wrong.  In this class we will add color to our metal work . . . liver of sulfur, metal paint, color resin, prisma color, enamel and a new material that will be a secret surprise I am dying to try :)   Use the Buy Now button to pay





I also did a demonstration before my peers of the Prismacolor technique [New Metal Artists Group].  This piece had several layers:

Lastly, to share on my agenda . . . Many of you know that I have spent some time receiving ‘coaching’ to improve the many facets of my life.  Beyond the tremendous support I receive from my closest friends – I view the coaching I receive as incredibly powerful, useful and enriching. Since I am doing some mentoring myself this year it is also a way to recharge and gain new insights to further assist my clients.

I have been privileged to work with Lora Hart in a Mentorial .  In my field and close to home, there has been no one better for me to work with and I have gained a lot!  My work and counsel with Lora has been invaluable in my professional development and recently I had the privilege of experiencing the work she is doing: Crafting Your Creative Voice.  It’s a book she is writing and a new class she is teaching and I was so grateful to get a sneak peak at the whole package!

I’ve been doing ongoing online work in Richard Luck’s programs – talk about a mindset shift!  Going beyond the traditional ‘positive affirmation’ I grew really impressed with his subliminal videos – changes occurred in my thinking, I hadn’t even knew I was making :) .  As a former Personal Development Trainer from the 80′ generation, “positive affirmations” were a staple of my work.  Luck’s work takes it to a whole new level.

This is me with Christine Kane at the end of the December event I attended – UpLevel Live.  I have to say, and I do so with conviction – I came back from that event a happier human than when I left . . . for having met her, worked with her and worked with an amazing group of other folk.  Everyone there had a commitment to improving their businesses because doing so would not only improve their life, but enrich the lives of the people they encountered.

Christine has created many programs that speak to the right brain as much as the left brain in developing a creative business.  I particular appreciate her view of marketing – as a good thing – and an effort that must be done authentically.

I found Christine on the ‘intarweb’ while looking up some other ‘stuff’.  She has an ebook on vision boards I got really excited about.  A plain and simple technique that made it a little less mystical and more attainable to me.  Check that out here.

Christine has a training call coming up.  It’s free! The last time I was on a training call with her, I was so excited afterwards that I couldn’t sleep! :) If you want to Uplevel your whole life – I highly recommend that you sign up for this free training call. I’ll be there!

Overall I am a strong believer in coaching/mentoring/counseling – whatever you’d like to participate in :) .  I understand first hand that ‘going it alone’ is never a good thing.  Doing that was the end to my business and a period of soul-less existence during some trying times.  I don’t recommend it.

I am happy with where I am and where I am heading.  I am comfortable to ask for help and seek guidance from my friends and mentors on a daily basis.  Sometimes it’s just a cuppa joe and a good laugh.

Check out the resources I’ve shared.  Tell me what you think.  Share what resources you’ve used.  Community in many forms is a very good thing.

Have a super-mega-awesome week!
All my best,
Delia

Make something everyday . . . even if it’s trouble! – I said that

Thank you for your time,
Delia